For beginners who don't want to jump straight to penetration, simply stimulating your perineum (the area between your anus and scrotum) via rubbing or stroking is a great introduction to your p-spot. It is important to experiment with different angles, heights, and positions of both you and your partner (or toy) to see how best to stimulate your P-spot. Whether you call it bottoming, pegging, or simply butt stuff, those who have a prostate gland, otherwise known as the “P-spot” or male G-spot, and it’s worth exploring. In popular culture, there appears to be an increasing acceptance of and curiosity toward butt play.